Housework Foreplay...

I have been telling folks this for years. (I'm going to present this from the view point of the man complaining he isnt getting enough sex but it can just as easily be the woman complaining about the man...)

Couples often bicker about keeping the house clean, taking care of the kids, cooking, doing errands, etc. Say what you want about "women's lib", I feel that those pioneers did not think things through to the end result. Yes women can go out and work and make as much, if not more money than men, but they are also STILL stuck in the kitchen, taking care of the kids, carpooling, cleaning, etc. Women fighting to become part of the work force is also one of the reasons that we need two-income families now just to make ends meet-it changed the economy of the USA (but I digress..)

Are there men out there pulling their weight? Yes. Are there men out there doing everything for the kids, house, wife and still working full time? Yes. Are their lazy women out there doing absolutely nothing? Yes. The majority of the time it's still the woman who has more crap piled on her than time in the day to get it all done.

Instead of whining and complaining that you are not getting enough sex at home, how about pitching in with the chores and the kids and all of that mundane junk? It should not always be the woman's responsibility to do all of that plus work while the man comes home at the end of the workday and does nothing. I'm not saying it's always like this but if it is that way in YOUR relationship, get a clue please...

Taking some of that responsibility as your own can really go a long way in helping a woman feel less like a servant and more like the sexy woman she was before the situation wore her the hell out. It's hard to feel sexy and horny when you are utterly exhausted and extremely resentful that you are stuck doing all of it yourself.

And dads, PLEASE do not ever say "oh, I can't go bowling because I'm babysitting tonight". No, you are not babysitting. They are your kids-you are being a dad. I have never heard a mom say she was babysitting her own kids-have you?

So let's recap... (1) doing your share of housework is better foreplay than the special trick you do with your tongue; (2) recognize that women's lib was not meant to doom a woman to working full time AND being responsible for the entire household but it did change the economy in a way that we now really do need two-incomes to make ends meet in many instances; (3) dads do not BABYSIT their own kids.

Kudos to the men out there who already get this...you are wise! Kick in the ass to men who do not get this-pitch in at home or don't complain that your woman is too tired to also service you.

Comments? I'm sure there will be ;)


Typing this as her hubby is washing the dishes,


Professor Val

Oh and PS.... I just read an article where President Obama was talking about something similar... http://news.aol.com/article/obama-discusses-negotiations-in-his/731906